Why Sex Is (So Much) Better at Midlife
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Learn how midlife brings a new kind of sexual freedom in a long-term committed relationship — grounded in trust, self-awareness, and deeper connection.
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How Long Is Too Long Without Sex?
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Discover what it really means when sexual connection and intimacy fade — not by counting months, but by tuning into how you feel, interact and connect. Explore the subtle signs that it’s been “too long” without sex, what’s underneath the silence, and how to open the conversation and rebuild closeness again.
Read MoreWhat if I am not attracted to my husband anymore?
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When couples struggle with loss of sexual desire and/or passion in a marriage or long-term relationship, almost universally the first thing they question is whether it’s due to the lack of attraction. Most often, it’s not the case. Find out what factors influence attraction or sexual desire in a long-term relationship and what to do about them.
Read More10 Sexy & Playful Ways to Feel in Love Daily
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For long-term couples, feeling in love should not be reserved for once-a-year Valentine’s day. Choose one or more of these 10 easy ways to connect to each other daily and feel in love with each other, opening the door to deeper intimacy and sexual passion.
Read MoreSet Yourselves Up for Success as a Couple in Sex & Intimacy
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Being intentional in your relationship sets you up for success in creating what you desire. More critically, it allows you to feed and nourish what is important to you. Learn the 5-step process to being intentional and make it happen, through the highs and lows.
Read More15 Things to Avoid (and What to Look for Instead) When Hiring a Couples Sex Coach or Therapist
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It is a big deal when you let a sex coach or therapist into your intimate life to help you rebuild sexual desire or reconnect sexually in a sexless marriage. You want to do it right. This list of 15 things to avoid and what to look for instead will help you find the best possible support and guide on this journey.
Read MoreI Am a Sex Coach, and Here's Why I'm Against Foreplay
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We are culturally conditioned to focus on foreplay to get a woman "ready" for sex. What if it's actually harmful and hurts women's changes of actually having a fulfilling sex life?
Read MoreHow to Find Your Way Back to Each Other and Revive a Sexless Marriage
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These five steps will take you through the process of recoving a sexless marriage towards more intimate connection and sexual expression. With ongoing curiosity, openness and lots of tender loving care, a couple can work to create the safety and security that are necessary to rekindle a love-filled, deeply intimate union.
Read MoreSex and the HSP Woman: How Meeting "Pre-Sex" Needs Contributes to Her Enjoyment and Desire for Sex
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Despite being critical for her sexual desire and ability to engage fully in sex, women’s pre-sex needs are often ignored or de-prioritized over the more sexual overtures. That is especially important for highly sensitive (HSP) women.
Read MoreFor Men: How to Be a Better Lover with an HSP Woman
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For a man, being a better with a highly sensitive person (HSP) woman means making a few important internal shifts to bring out her best nature and sexual desire.
Read MoreEnjoying Sex and Intimacy as a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP)
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HSPs are just as sexual as non-HSPs, but they need a different path to opening up sexually that has been overlooked by sex educators, relationship counselors, and authors of self-help books. Learn what HSPs need to come alive in the bedroom.
Read MoreWhy Your Partner Won’t Get Couples Counseling and How to Get Them On Board
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You plead for getting a couples counseling in the form of coaching or a therapy and your partner refuses. What do you do to get them on board?
Read More3 Warning Signs of Divorce and How to Address Them Before It's Too Late
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There are 3 clear signs that couples who struggle with sex and desire issues exhibit that indicate that they’re heading for divorce. Learn these signs and commit to changing the course before it’s too late.
Read MoreWhat Is the Meaning of Sex in Your Long-term Relationship?
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Like all important aspects of life, sex carries meaning. Understanding what sex means to you — and your partner — will tell you if you’re on the same page in valuing and prioritizing it. Or not.
Read MoreHow to Tell If Your Sex Life Is Good & What to Do to Create One
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If 1,190,000,000 Google results for “ways to know you have a healthy sex life” tell you anything, it’s that people want to know. Trying new things and good orgasms always top the list. Without a doubt, newness adds variety and excitement and orgasms make for a grand finale. But is that enough? Here’s a set of different kind of questions to gauge the quality of your sex life — how passionate, how connected, how erotic, and how enriching it is for you?
Read MoreWhen to Walk Away from a Sexless Marriage
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The decision to walk away from a sexless marriage is a gut-wrenching one. This in-depth article will talk about 1) What qualifies as a sexless marriage, 2) The pain of a sexless marriage, 3) What to try before walking away, 4) When to walk away and 5) What problems masquerades as unsolvable and how to solve them.
Read More5 Most Common Mistakes Couples Make When Working on a Sex Problem in a Long-term Relationship
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I’ve compiled a list of very common — and very understandable — mistakes that couples make to help you prevent this unnecessary pain and get the resources you need sooner. Whether it’s an issue of low or lack of sexual desire, or lack of passion in the bedroom after decades together, the resources to support you are a free consultation away.
Read More7 Habits of Healthy Couples Who Have Great Sex
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Great sex doesn’t “just” happen in a long-term relationship. It’s fed, nourished and ignited by conversations about sex that make you feel desired and important to each other. These 7 habits show you what healthy couples do to have great sex.
Read MoreA Tale of Two Couples & One Sex Problem: How Some Marriages Be Saved and Others Cannot
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Why can some sexless marriages be saved and why others cannot? What is the difference? Read this article to find out the key element that turns one sex problem into a disaster or a recipe for closeness and passionate sex.
Read MoreHow Talking About Your Feelings Is Harming Your Relationship
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When the relationship is struggling over the “sexual desire gap” problem, couples will naturally want to talk it over, telling each other what they think, under the guise of “telling the truth.” This actually harms your relationship. Find out how — and what to do instead.
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