Sexless Marriage Recovery Coaching

You can build a life together, raise a family, support each other's careers, run a household, be a great team — and still lose the part of your relationship that makes you more than partners in life.

A strong marriage also requires intimacy, affection, desire and that private lover connection that belong to the two of you.

I am Irene Fehr, Sexless Marriage Recovery Coach. I help committed couples protect and strengthen the emotional and sexual intimacy that makes them lovers — amidst the pressures of real life.

For the last 15 years, I’ve supported married couples in transforming their sexless marriage with depth of compassion and care.

My work is deeply influenced by my personal experience. I know personally what can happen when sexual connection disappears from a marriage.

As I lost my interest in sex, our marriage became sexless. Eventually, we divorced.

I lost my marriage. I don't want you to lose yours.

That's why I've made it my mission to help couples understand something I wish I'd known then: losing your libido — even ending up in a sexless marriage — does not have to mean the end of your marriage.

There is a way back to being lovers again — and make your marriage stronger as a result.

My work weaves together science-based somatic tools, real-world wisdom, and a deep understanding of emotional, physical and sexual intimacy.

In addition to working with clients, my views on sexual desire, love and sex in a long-term monogamous relationship — and my own story of losing my libido — have been featured in more than 40 podcasts and mainstream media around the world.

My forthcoming book DESIRE UNDER PRESSURE: How to Keep Sex & Desire Alive When Real-Life Gets in the Way will be released at the end of 2026.

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