If 1,190,000,000 Google results for “ways to know you have a healthy sex life” tell you anything, it’s that people want to know. Trying new things and good orgasms always top the list. Without a doubt, newness adds variety and excitement and orgasms make for a grand finale. But is that enough? Here’s a set of different kind of questions to gauge the quality of your sex life — how passionate, how connected, how erotic, and how enriching it is for you?