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November 27, 2019

3 Honest Mistakes That Lead to "No Sex Tonight"!

November 27, 2019/ Irene Fehr
3 Honest Mistakes That Lead to "No Sex Tonight"!

Couples make these mistakes all the time, and it means no sex for weeks, even months. Are you making these, too?

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November 27, 2019/ Irene Fehr/
Sex & wellness
couples, relationships, sex and love
November 20, 2019

The Self-Care Practice Most Women Give Up On (Even If It Opens Them Up Sexually)

November 20, 2019/ Irene Fehr
The Self-Care Practice Most Women Give Up On (Even If It Opens Them Up Sexually)

As women, we know this is one of the best ways to feel good in our bodies and turn ourselves on. It's time to reintroduce this practice to our day!

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November 20, 2019/ Irene Fehr/
Sex & wellness
pleasure, women's pleasure
November 11, 2019

How I Finally Learned to Love My Body (and My Pussy Too)

November 11, 2019/ Irene Fehr
How I Finally Learned to Love My Body (and My Pussy Too)

It didn’t happen overnight. And it didn’t take mantras. (You might guess that having sex had something to do with it).

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November 11, 2019/ Irene Fehr/
Sex & wellness
pleasure, sexual pleasure, self love
November 05, 2019

Talking About Sex Can Be Hard — but This Will Help

November 05, 2019/ Irene Fehr
Talking About Sex Can Be Hard — but This Will Help

Talking about sex can be intimidating and scary — until you learn this. Check out the exact do’s and don’ts of talking about sex to make it more comfortable, easy and connecting.

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November 05, 2019/ Irene Fehr/
Sex & wellness
Anatomy Of Intimacy, intimacy, communication, relationships
November 01, 2019

33 Self-care Pleasure Practices for More Sexual Desire & Better Sex

November 01, 2019/ Irene Fehr
33 Self-care Pleasure Practices for More Sexual Desire & Better Sex

Feeling sexy is one of the most powerful aphrodisiacs. But how do we get there, especially after a busy day? Explore these 33 self-care practices rooted in pleasure — and turn on that will fuel your day and fire up your night.

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November 01, 2019/ Irene Fehr/
Sex & wellness
self pleasure, self-care, women's pleasure, women
September 24, 2019

MASTERCLASS: How to Know What You Want & Confidently Ask for It

September 24, 2019/ Irene Fehr
MASTERCLASS: How to Know What You Want & Confidently Ask for It

The most frequent complaints I hear from women is they don’t know what they want in sex. This 3-part training teaches you exactly how to find out what you want — and the path to getting it.

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September 24, 2019/ Irene Fehr/
September 24, 2019

Try This Every Day to Boost Your Sexual Desire (and your partner will thank you!)

September 24, 2019/ Irene Fehr
Try This Every Day to Boost Your Sexual Desire  (and your partner will thank you!)

Ever hear "you can't pour from an empty cup"? When we run on empty, sex gets hard. There is another way!

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September 24, 2019/ Irene Fehr/
Sex & wellness
sex, sexuality, feminine sexuality, sex and love
June 19, 2019

When I Talk about Sex, This Is What I Am Really Talking About

June 19, 2019/ Irene Fehr
When I Talk about Sex, This Is What I Am Really Talking About

I talk a lot about asking for what you want in sex. But you know what? This isn’t about getting what you want. Read to find out what I am really talking about.

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June 19, 2019/ Irene Fehr/
Sex & wellness
sex, feminine sexuality, sexuality, sex and love
December 05, 2018

Orgasmic Holiday Gift Guide for Couples

December 05, 2018/ Irene Fehr
Orgasmic Holiday Gift Guide for Couples

Five must-have things on your list guaranteed to make sparks fly in your relationship this holiday season.

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December 05, 2018/ Irene Fehr/
Sex & wellness
sex and love, intimacy, relationships
August 08, 2018

Do THIS for yummy pleasure & connection next time you have sex

August 08, 2018/ Irene Fehr
Do THIS for yummy pleasure & connection next time you have sex

Find your mind wondering during sex? Find out what your body is telling you and how to get yourself back on track.

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August 08, 2018/ Irene Fehr/
Sex & wellness
sex, sexual pleasure
August 01, 2018

How to Relax and Receive Sexual Pleasure

August 01, 2018/ Irene Fehr
How to Relax and Receive Sexual Pleasure

Learn this powerful practice to help connect to your body and receive pleasure — in sex and in life.

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August 01, 2018/ Irene Fehr/
Sex & wellness
sexual pleasure, female sexuality, female libido, sexuality, sexual health
July 29, 2018

Bigger is better in sex? Not always ...

July 29, 2018/ Irene Fehr
Bigger is better in sex? Not always ...

Popular advice for reigniting sexual intimacy tells us to up the ante on date nights and such. Yet when it comes to intimacy, smaller is better.

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July 29, 2018/ Irene Fehr/
Sex & wellness
Anatomy Of Intimacy, sex and love, relationships, intimacy
July 17, 2018

Why Can Sex Feel Painful for Women?

July 17, 2018/ Irene Fehr
Why Can Sex Feel Painful for Women?

Most women experience painful sex and intercourse at some point. Get the into you need to shift into pleasure.

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July 17, 2018/ Irene Fehr/
Sex & wellness
painful sex, women's pleasure, female libido
July 15, 2018

Desire as a Love Language: The Key to Restoring Passion & Intimacy in a Relationship

July 15, 2018/ Irene Fehr
Desire as a Love Language: The Key to Restoring Passion & Intimacy in a Relationship

When relationships falter, this one thing goes south. Couples resort to complaining and can’t find their way out. This holds the answer.

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July 15, 2018/ Irene Fehr/
Sex & wellness
relationships, intimacy, sex and love, Anatomy Of Intimacy
June 29, 2018

When Sex Is Not the Issue in a Sexless Marriage

June 29, 2018/ Irene Fehr
When Sex Is Not the Issue in a Sexless Marriage

What happens when sex is not the issue in a sexless marriage.

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June 29, 2018/ Irene Fehr/
Sex & wellness
sex and love, Intimacy, sex, relationships, Anatomy Of Intimacy
June 22, 2018

Who's Running the Show in Your Arguments?

June 22, 2018/ Irene Fehr
Who's Running the Show in Your Arguments?

When couples fight, it's rarely about the topic. And it's rarely a mere exchange of words. By understanding this one thing, you can learn to deepen your connect and feel closer in talking about sex.

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June 22, 2018/ Irene Fehr/
Sex & wellness
relationships, sex and love, intimacy, Anatomy Of Intimacy
February 18, 2018

Three Reasons Women Stop Wanting Sex

February 18, 2018/ Irene Fehr
Three Reasons Women Stop Wanting Sex

If you as a woman do not experience spontaneous sexual desire, it does not mean there is something wrong with you. Learn about three things that keep women's libido low in a long-term relationship. 

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February 18, 2018/ Irene Fehr/
Sex & wellness
sex, sexuality, women's pleasure, sexless marriage, low libido
November 08, 2017

Top 3 Mistakes Couples Make That Turn Women Off Sex

November 08, 2017/ Irene Fehr
Top 3 Mistakes Couples Make That Turn Women Off Sex

As a coach who works with women and couples to create satisfying and nourishing sex lives, I can zero in on three top mistakes that couples make when it comes to sex — mistakes that actually turn women off sex.

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November 08, 2017/ Irene Fehr/
Sex & wellness
sexless marriage, female sexuality, female libido, relationships
September 06, 2017

Painful Sex Should Never Be the Norm for Women

September 06, 2017/ Irene Fehr
Painful Sex Should Never Be the Norm for Women

Irene Fehr and Rachel Gelman, DPT, pelvic physical therapist, teamed up to talk about why painful sex should never be the norm for women and offer ways to work through the pain to create more pleasure for women.

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September 06, 2017/ Irene Fehr/
Sex & wellness
painful sex, women's pleasure, sex, sexual, sexless marriage, sexual health
October 12, 2016

How to Relax and Stay Present During Sex

October 12, 2016/ Irene Fehr
How to Relax and Stay Present During Sex

One of the top questions I get from women is: how do I stay present during sex? I’ve been there before too. While he is lavishing me with touch and affection, my mind is somewhere else: the laundry list, that mistake I made at work, wondering why I haven’t waxed for weeks …

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October 12, 2016/ Irene Fehr/
Sex & wellness
sex, mindfulness
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